A campfire can warm the people gathered around it, but in Darrell J. Pedersen’s second collection of North Woods reflections, the fire also represents what one generation entrusts to the next. Who Will Carry the Fire? More Reflections from a North Woods Lake considers the stories, relationships, traditions, and everyday choices that become part of a family’s and community’s inheritance. Drawing on memories of Minnesota, family life, changing times, humor, and human connection, Pedersen turns recollection toward a larger question: what deserves to be remembered, preserved, and carried forward?
More Reflections from a North Woods Lake
by Darrell J. Pedersen
Genre: Memoir
Date Published: 04-07-2025
Publisher: RiverPlace Press
Pedersen’s title gives these recollections a purpose beyond preserving personal memories. His stories repeatedly return to the people, places, traditions, and encounters that shape the way one generation understands the world before passing those lessons to another. The North Woods setting provides the foundation, but the larger concern is what remains valuable after the moment itself has passed.
“Five Young Men And Christmas 2020” demonstrates that reflective approach particularly well. A troubling encounter on the road leads Pedersen into assumptions about several strangers, only for an unexpected act of generosity to challenge those judgments. The essay becomes less about the incidents themselves than about what they reveal concerning community, hope, human behavior, and the willingness to reconsider what we think we know about other people.
A hairy arm, plaid flannel sleeve rolled up, extended out of the pickup window and held high a fist with middle finger raised. A week before Christmas, at the end of the tumultuous year 2020, I was headed for the dump. Driving where four lane transitions to two, loud rumbling acceleration of an engine caught my attention. There he is, up ahead of me in the right lane, a big pickup. Speeding up, he slid in front of a small car. That’s when I spotted his obscene gesture. What, I wondered, did that other driver do to earn that reaction? Drawing close behind the little car, I spotted the offense. This little old lady had made the mistake of sporting a small presidential campaign sticker in her back window. I guessed giving her the finger was a victory for him.
Witnessing this attack on humanity by a bearded young man in a big pickup caused me to reflect on his place in our society and world. I thought about the large number of bearded young men I had lately witnessed in televised protests, a few packing assault rifles. Some, recently, shouted obscenities at me and others for standing in silent support of Black Lives Matter. I wondered, has this whole generation been lost? But then I recalled, my own son is bearded and drives a noisy, old jeep, and he’s currently using his vocational skills to put together a virtual Christmas Eve service for his church.
That was Friday. Today, Monday, my wife and I pulled into a long line outside Burger King. I immediately took notice of the young man ahead of us in the row. He was driving an old pickup, paint peeling off and rusty jagged holes in its fenders. Seeing him watching us in his mirror, I wondered if he was another of these young ruffians.
Behind us, a brand new, red Jeep slipped into line. In my mirror I saw another young man driving. I noted huge tires, winch, fancy mirrors, decals, all the options. Lots of money for that one, I thought. I wonder what kind of a job he has? I never had money to buy something like that when I was his age. I don’t have money to buy something like that even at age 68.
A long wait; we were one car back now. The young driver in the rusty pickup carried on an extended conversation with the window person whose hand held the outstretched plastic tub awaiting payment. Is he hassling that poor cashier? Finally, he put his credit card in the tub, received his food, and drove away. Our turn. The twenty-something man in the window, masked, said, “Your meal has already been paid for. The fellow ahead of you took care of your bill.”
“What?”
He repeated. Bill paid. Young man in the pickup truck. $17.84.
“Well, can I pay for the people behind me?”
“Yes, if you want to.”
“Yes, please, let me pay for their bill.” His bill. I remembered; it was the young fellow in the expensive Jeep. I handed the cashier my credit card and he rang it up.
“How much was it?”
“Just over three bucks.”
“Well, can I pay for the next car too?”
“Sure.”
“How much is that one?”
“That one is $24.95.”
“Okay, thanks, that will be just fine.”
Bill paid. Food delivered. Credit card returned. Ready to coast away, I looked my young fellow in the eye and offered, “Merry Christmas.”
“Merry Christmas and God bless you,” he replied.
“And God bless you too,” I said to one of my new young friends at Burger King.
Five young men just before Christmas in 2020. Pandemic, political strife, racism. So much trouble all around. Five young men and an old guy. Maybe there’s still hope.
This collection is particularly suited to readers who prefer memoir in self-contained essays rather than one continuous chronological narrative. Its emphasis on Minnesota’s North Woods, family memories, ordinary encounters, and the stories handed down through generations gives the book a strong sense of place while keeping its attention firmly on people.
It will also appeal to readers who appreciate personal essays that include self-examination. Pedersen does not simply preserve events as he remembers them; he considers what those memories reveal about judgment, kindness, community, aging, and responsibility to the people who come after us.
Darrell J. Pedersen was raised in the 1950-60s, on a little lake in Minnesota’s North Woods. He grew up and moved away, but his heart has never left that place. His family, the lake, woods, and critters that embraced his young life taught him to appreciate today and to be hopeful for tomorrow. He learned to care for the creation and the neighbor. To leave the world a little better place than he found it.
Since retirement, he has published his first memoir/collection of essays, Campfire in the Basement: Reflections from a North Woods Lake. One year later, Who Will Carry the Fire? More Reflections from a North Woods Lake is now in your hands. Both books include real life stories of everyday people living one day at a time in a challenging, yet amazing world. Hard work, laughter, tears, wins and losses. He believes you will find your story here too. Darrell and his wife, Jennifer, live in Baxter, Minnesota.
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The title’s question gives the collection its strongest point of connection. Pedersen’s essays suggest that carrying the fire happens through remembered names, repeated family stories, lessons learned from ordinary encounters, and the decision to preserve what earlier generations have given us. The memories belong to one Minnesota life, but the responsibility behind them is much broader: deciding which stories we will keep telling and what those stories will carry forward.
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